I have to agree with Sandy. Lydia may be only 15, but in a world before the extension of childhood and adolescence, that's old enough to be married or, for the lower classes, have a job. More importantly, by getting married (or running off with a guy) she has declared herself as independent as women of the day got, and the consequences of her actions will now be falling squarely on her own shoulders in addition to those of her family and husband. Even at the age of 15 and as a particularly heedless young lady, as a Regency girl Lydia could not have avoided understanding that to at least some extent.
Further, since Lydia is "out," although she's still very young she is actually considered an adult, and treated as just as much of one as her over-20 sisters. Elizabeth discusses both the pros and cons of that parental decision with Lady Catherine.
Even today, 15 is old enough to make decisions which will irrevocably alter a young lady's life (contracting an STD, getting pregnant, running away from home). Reality has no pity for youth.
All that said, I feel sorry for anybody, past or present, who ruins her future at any age, and particularly with so little experience to go upon as 15 years. Certainly I feel more pity for her than for Wickham.
Further, since Lydia is "out," although she's still very young she is actually considered an adult, and treated as just as much of one as her over-20 sisters. Elizabeth discusses both the pros and cons of that parental decision with Lady Catherine.
Even today, 15 is old enough to make decisions which will irrevocably alter a young lady's life (contracting an STD, getting pregnant, running away from home). Reality has no pity for youth.
All that said, I feel sorry for anybody, past or present, who ruins her future at any age, and particularly with so little experience to go upon as 15 years. Certainly I feel more pity for her than for Wickham.